Since When Does Yes To Coffee Mean Yes To Sex!!!

What the HELL is wrong with men these days??? It doesn't seem to matter how old or young they are. Doesn't matter if you meet them through friends or at a bar!! If you agree to coffee, these men expect that you will be having sex with them after!! Half the time they try to skip the coffee all together!! If we are not at least worth a nice dinner and a little conversation, then you definitely are not worth even one second of our time, never mind our nakedness!!!


Now, I'm pretty forgiving when it comes to the piggish ways of men, and usually the first one to laugh at a dirty joke!! The fact that a woman may enjoy sex, doesn't mean she's willing to do it with just anybody!!! Most women would rather pull out the toy box and play with themselves,  then have sex with a strange man just to fake an orgasm. At least when we break out the "toy" box we know an orgasm is a sure thing!!! 


Yes, I agree that sex can be just sex. You must keep in mind that women are always thinking about their safety, and laying naked on their back with a 200lb man draped between their legs, can be a pretty vulnerable position for some women to be in! If we don't know anything about you or your personality, how can u expect us to hop into bed and spread our legs for you??? A woman must be comfortable with a man before she can give herself to him. That is a BIG DEAL!! In most cases the man can over power a woman in an instant, and none of us want to wake up in the back of some blacked out van or end up dead. So we would like to know a little about a man before we let him man handle us!!! When ya think about it doesn't that make sense??? 


The more you show that sex is all you want, the less of a chance there is you will actually get it!! Give us a reason, show us you are different from all the rest!! No, you don't have to take her to the most expensive restaurant, or buy her expensive things. All you have to do is show her that you ARE in fact interested in HER!!! AND if you are not really interested then don't call or text in the first damn place!! It's pretty simple!! 


Besides, do you really want to jump into bed with a woman who will jump in with any man who crosses her path?!?! Nope, ya don't!! Slutty isn't Sexy, You want  a woman who has skills so good they are only shown to the VIP??? So to clear things up. When you invite her out for coffee, or dinner she is in fact expecting coffee or dinner!!  Now, if she invites you in for coffee, after dinner that is a whole other ball game ;) 


Experts Column 

The Less Endowed, Haven't Been Getting The Credit They Deserve!! So Here's To You!

 It really is true. Size DOES NOT Matter, and I'm going to explain why!!!

This will bring a little relief to the fellas out there, who may be a little less endowed than average!! 

For most men, it's all about, "mine is bigger, no mine is bigger." The bigger the better, right?? WRONG!!! For some of us petite ladies, it's hard to rock a thick, 10+ ich ,  pain free & with as much enthusiasm and skill as we possess!! (although a little pain during sex can be fun, There is a limit to what us petite gals can take. lol)

For Women foreplay is of the utmost importance. It is THE key, to all great sex!! The verdict is in, on the less endowed!! Do not sell them short ladies!!  Those men are usually so eager to please, they will touch, kiss and lick you from head to toe!! They will not miss one, hot spot on your body!! Making sure to give a little extra TLC, on those extra special little places!!! They will have a tongue, that will make your eyes roll into the back of you head!!!  Break out B.O.B. from your trusty toy box, put it in his hand, lay back and enjoy!! The combo of BOB, being able to hit all  the right spots on the inside, while ur fella works his magic on the outside! Ladies you are in for the orgasm or two, or three of a life time!! 

These men will never be ready to climax, until they are certain their lady is 100% satisfied and has reached her pleasure peak for the evening!! By the time he slides inside, he is so hott for you at this moment, not to mention you for him. Sex is gonna blow your freakin mind!!  Yup, I'm talking about Mind blowin, toe curlin, wake the neighbours kinda sex.

So the next time someone says "They've heard he's a little less than average." You can respond with, Wow really?? That's exciting!! Ladies, you need to give these poor guys a break. They've been getting little credit for the skills they have mastered along the way!! So here is my credit, where credit is due!! Without guys with small packages, many woman of the word may not have ever experienced multiple orgasms!! Panties off to you fellas, keep up the good work!!

Want To Know If He's Into you?? Read This Now!

This One Is For The Fellas!

Ok Guys,

Women can be pretty simple! Seriously!! 

There are a few Simple things you can do to increase your chances with the ladies. 

On a first date DO NOT:

A)DO NOT: Wear the oldest T-shirt in your drawer, or the cleanest one from the floor and your "best" jeans!! Every grown man should own a nice shirt, jacket, pants & shoes!! If the 16yr olds can wear a shirt and tie to their away football games, you can wear something nice on a first date!!

B)DO NOT: Pick your local watering hole to go for dinner and drinks!! You are trying to get to know your date, not trying to show her how many sloppy drunk people you know!!!!

C)DO NOT: Think she is going to sleep with you just because she agreed to go out with you!!! Women are not like men, we need to feel chemistry before we can even think about letting you get that close!!

D) Most importantly DO NOT pick her up and say; "what do u want to do?" You are the man, take charge and make a plan!! If you come in with a plan, it at least makes you look like you are you for something other than sex!! (If you are just horny, rub one out and leave her out of it, and save everyone the leg humping, Hahaha!!)

(If you act like all you want is sex, guaranteed, it's he last thing you will get!!)

Fellas, you need to always remember to treat women as such, we are people just the same. We do not like to be treated as objects and should always be treated with respect!!! A little goes a long way!! The guy who shows up at the door, looking like he put some effort into getting ready for his date. He will have a great time and may even get a second date!! The guy that shows up wearing  ball hat, T-shirt, jeans and sneakers, will be lucky to make it all the way through dinner, before she is ready to pack it in!!

Most men would rather have a woman on their arm, who smells beautiful, has her hair brushed, her ta-tas tucked into a bra behind a fancy blouse or shirt, a skirt and a sexy pair of heels. Rather than a pony tail, saggy ass track pants, sneakers and a hoodie!! Right???? Whether you were coming home to her or picking her up for a date. Why shouldn't women have the same expectations??? Clean yourself up for a date, have some respect for yourself, as well as for her!!!

Self Respect, Get It, & Keep It!! Never Lower Yourselves, Young Ladies!!!

THIS JUST IN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!  If we can see your ass cheeks, in ANY way!!  
IT'S FAR TOO SHORT!!

Don't you know those dresses" you are wearing are actually shirts??? YES, they are supposed to be worn with pants, tights or even shorts!! Cover your shit up!! No man will ever take you seriously when your ass is hanging out in the street for all to see!!!  No man will ever respect you, if you do not respect yourself enough to believe you have more to offer than your Va-JJ. Cover it up!!!

Ladies if you are flaunting your pink parts for all to see, men are going to look at you as nothing more than their play toy!! They will never be able to look at you and see you as, the mother of their children  Sitting at the dinner table during holiday gatherings!!! You can't take a play toy home to meet the family!!! Some times more really is more!! The more clothes you have on, the more self respect you have!! You are a confidant woman. You are showing that you know you have more to offer than just another pretty face, or a nice piece of Tits N Ass!!

Men like to imagine what you are wearing under there. They don't want you to bend over and show them you''ve got nothing on under there!! It's only sexy to go commando on a date, if you are with your honey and you are trying to rev them up for a little after dinner delight!! That being said, this is usually done under a long sleek, floor length dress, not one that just covers their ass cheeks!! Men like to undress you with their eyes, but not as much as they enjoy removing each item of your ensemble! Each piece removed, excites them more and more, as they anticipate removing that last silky item!!

Most important thing ladies, you need to love and respect yourself. First & fore most! Cover your shit up and show them what you really have to offer!!! They may actually take some time to get to know you, instead of just trying to take you home or get you in the bathroom stall, for some gritty meaningless sex!!! 

Ladies, it's up to us to teach our younger generations, the importance of self respect & self worth!! We need to let them know, they are worth so much more then a one night stand, or a weekly booty call!!! Every woman deserves to be one man's, Number 1. To be his one and only, to have everything he is looking for in one sassy little package!! If he walks away because you won't give it up to him.  Let him keep walking!!!  You are worth so much more than that!!!

Why Are So Many Young Women, Dating Older Men?

Why Are So Many Young Women, Dating  Older Men, these days??? I have been hearing this question a lot in the last few months. It's been asked by my guy friends right up to interviews done on T.V.!! The thing of it is, they have it all wrong!! The reason apparently isn't so clear, to many!!! So I thought I would throw a few things out there that nobody is talking about!!!

One of the biggest reasons women date older men, is because older men treat their women like women, not as objects to be discarded. They are respectful, polite & courteous!!! Men over the age of 40 were taught from childhood, that you must always respect a lady!!! 

Another very big reason women date older men, is because they will at the very least, take you out and buy you dinner and truly enjoy your company, before they try to put the moves on you!! If they even try anything more then a good night kiss, on the first date!!! For some reason these days, younger men seem to think, that if a woman agrees to spend any time with them at all,  it automatically means they will get laid!!! NEWS FLASH Fellas, any self respecting woman does not behave in such a manner!! If you come cross a woman who does, is that really the type of woman you want to be with??

An older man is a gentleman, he opens doors, pulls out chairs, even stands when you leave for the ladies room, and again when you return!!! They never talk about the price of the check, after dinner!!! When you are out on a date with an older man, he always makes you feel like you are the only woman in the room. (Even if it is full of beautiful woman) They make us feel like they are actually enjoying our company! Not just waiting or us to take our panties off!!!

If an older man sees something he likes, he at least puts up a good fight trying to get it! They usually, very much enjoy the challenge!!! Young guys these days don't feel a woman has anything to offer that is worth the effort!! Instead, if they don't get your panties off, on the first date. They will move along to the next one, who probably isn't wearing any panties to begin with!! 

Fellas, do you like it when your friend's dog jumps up and humps your leg????? 

No??  Guess what?? Women don't like it, when grown men do it either!!

Older men also take the time to make sure they please their lady!! They know that foreplay is a very important part of sex. They make sure their lady is just as fulfilled as they will be in the end!!! They will take their time and explore you from head to toe!!! They enjoy touching you almost as much, if not more then you enjoy being touched by them!!! It is because they know the sex game, is one of give and get!!! You must give as much as you wish to receive!!

Don't get me wrong, there are plenty of mature respectful young men out there. There's just a majority of the ones who aren't!! They were raised by a generation, which is lacking in respect & kindness!!! One that is forgetting what  it really means to interact with one another!!!

Regaining You Sex Appeal!!

When you are stuck in your daily routines, it can be a bit tough to get out of them. Especially if it involves any extra effort. A couple of quick trips to the mall here and there when you do have time, you will have all you need at your finger tips when the mood strikes!!! Men, this goes for you too!! It really doesn't take much extra time or effort to add a little sex appeal!!

Okay Ladies A Few Things To Get you Started!

First, u will need to get your cute little butt off of the couch and out of those saggy bottom comfy pants! Shave your legs, pluck your eyebrows and give those rough heels of  yours a little TLC!! When you put a little effort into yourself the rest comes easy!! And for the love of peter, cook your poor man a nice dinner! He really does deserve it more than, once in a while!! When your man comes home from work, and sees you pulled together with dinner on the go. You are bound to get a positive reaction, trust me!!

Scented Candles Are A Must: Nothing sets a mood like candle light and erotic scents!!

Get His Attention: Try getting your mans attention, the old fashion way!!! Just like us, men need to feel needed. So even though you may be a very independent woman, it's ok to let your man open that bottle or reach for those glasses, EVEN THOUGH, you can do it yourself.

Sexy PJ's: Yes, it is possible for PJ's  to be both practical and sexy!!! You don't need to squeeze yourself into a corset to be sexy!!! Besides lets be realistic, for the amount of time you will actually have it on, does it really matter how comfortable it is??? Nope, it sure doesn't!! 

Turn The Lights Down and The TV  OFF!!!: Make sure the TV is off at bed time, at least until both parties are pleased & smiling. Hahaha!!

(Never Do It With The TV On, It's bad for the orgasms, hahaha!!!)

The better you feel on the out side, the better he will make you feel on the inside!!!