Since When Does Yes To Coffee Mean Yes To Sex!!!

What the HELL is wrong with men these days??? It doesn't seem to matter how old or young they are. Doesn't matter if you meet them through friends or at a bar!! If you agree to coffee, these men expect that you will be having sex with them after!! Half the time they try to skip the coffee all together!! If we are not at least worth a nice dinner and a little conversation, then you definitely are not worth even one second of our time, never mind our nakedness!!!


Now, I'm pretty forgiving when it comes to the piggish ways of men, and usually the first one to laugh at a dirty joke!! The fact that a woman may enjoy sex, doesn't mean she's willing to do it with just anybody!!! Most women would rather pull out the toy box and play with themselves,  then have sex with a strange man just to fake an orgasm. At least when we break out the "toy" box we know an orgasm is a sure thing!!! 


Yes, I agree that sex can be just sex. You must keep in mind that women are always thinking about their safety, and laying naked on their back with a 200lb man draped between their legs, can be a pretty vulnerable position for some women to be in! If we don't know anything about you or your personality, how can u expect us to hop into bed and spread our legs for you??? A woman must be comfortable with a man before she can give herself to him. That is a BIG DEAL!! In most cases the man can over power a woman in an instant, and none of us want to wake up in the back of some blacked out van or end up dead. So we would like to know a little about a man before we let him man handle us!!! When ya think about it doesn't that make sense??? 


The more you show that sex is all you want, the less of a chance there is you will actually get it!! Give us a reason, show us you are different from all the rest!! No, you don't have to take her to the most expensive restaurant, or buy her expensive things. All you have to do is show her that you ARE in fact interested in HER!!! AND if you are not really interested then don't call or text in the first damn place!! It's pretty simple!! 


Besides, do you really want to jump into bed with a woman who will jump in with any man who crosses her path?!?! Nope, ya don't!! Slutty isn't Sexy, You want  a woman who has skills so good they are only shown to the VIP??? So to clear things up. When you invite her out for coffee, or dinner she is in fact expecting coffee or dinner!!  Now, if she invites you in for coffee, after dinner that is a whole other ball game ;) 


Experts Column 

This One Is For The Fellas!

Ok Guys,

Women can be pretty simple! Seriously!! 

There are a few Simple things you can do to increase your chances with the ladies. 

On a first date DO NOT:

A)DO NOT: Wear the oldest T-shirt in your drawer, or the cleanest one from the floor and your "best" jeans!! Every grown man should own a nice shirt, jacket, pants & shoes!! If the 16yr olds can wear a shirt and tie to their away football games, you can wear something nice on a first date!!

B)DO NOT: Pick your local watering hole to go for dinner and drinks!! You are trying to get to know your date, not trying to show her how many sloppy drunk people you know!!!!

C)DO NOT: Think she is going to sleep with you just because she agreed to go out with you!!! Women are not like men, we need to feel chemistry before we can even think about letting you get that close!!

D) Most importantly DO NOT pick her up and say; "what do u want to do?" You are the man, take charge and make a plan!! If you come in with a plan, it at least makes you look like you are you for something other than sex!! (If you are just horny, rub one out and leave her out of it, and save everyone the leg humping, Hahaha!!)

(If you act like all you want is sex, guaranteed, it's he last thing you will get!!)

Fellas, you need to always remember to treat women as such, we are people just the same. We do not like to be treated as objects and should always be treated with respect!!! A little goes a long way!! The guy who shows up at the door, looking like he put some effort into getting ready for his date. He will have a great time and may even get a second date!! The guy that shows up wearing  ball hat, T-shirt, jeans and sneakers, will be lucky to make it all the way through dinner, before she is ready to pack it in!!

Most men would rather have a woman on their arm, who smells beautiful, has her hair brushed, her ta-tas tucked into a bra behind a fancy blouse or shirt, a skirt and a sexy pair of heels. Rather than a pony tail, saggy ass track pants, sneakers and a hoodie!! Right???? Whether you were coming home to her or picking her up for a date. Why shouldn't women have the same expectations??? Clean yourself up for a date, have some respect for yourself, as well as for her!!!

Regaining You Sex Appeal!!

When you are stuck in your daily routines, it can be a bit tough to get out of them. Especially if it involves any extra effort. A couple of quick trips to the mall here and there when you do have time, you will have all you need at your finger tips when the mood strikes!!! Men, this goes for you too!! It really doesn't take much extra time or effort to add a little sex appeal!!

Okay Ladies A Few Things To Get you Started!

First, u will need to get your cute little butt off of the couch and out of those saggy bottom comfy pants! Shave your legs, pluck your eyebrows and give those rough heels of  yours a little TLC!! When you put a little effort into yourself the rest comes easy!! And for the love of peter, cook your poor man a nice dinner! He really does deserve it more than, once in a while!! When your man comes home from work, and sees you pulled together with dinner on the go. You are bound to get a positive reaction, trust me!!

Scented Candles Are A Must: Nothing sets a mood like candle light and erotic scents!!

Get His Attention: Try getting your mans attention, the old fashion way!!! Just like us, men need to feel needed. So even though you may be a very independent woman, it's ok to let your man open that bottle or reach for those glasses, EVEN THOUGH, you can do it yourself.

Sexy PJ's: Yes, it is possible for PJ's  to be both practical and sexy!!! You don't need to squeeze yourself into a corset to be sexy!!! Besides lets be realistic, for the amount of time you will actually have it on, does it really matter how comfortable it is??? Nope, it sure doesn't!! 

Turn The Lights Down and The TV  OFF!!!: Make sure the TV is off at bed time, at least until both parties are pleased & smiling. Hahaha!!

(Never Do It With The TV On, It's bad for the orgasms, hahaha!!!)

The better you feel on the out side, the better he will make you feel on the inside!!!